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[quote=Anonymous]I've posted before, but really, do you want a fragile person with advanced cancer + incontinence + dementia on a claustrophobic plane with complete strangers for a cross country flight?! Flights get delayed and cancelled all the time. This is the logistics nightmare. I understand emotions run high and everyone is at various stages of grieving (BTDT), but you and bil (as outsiders) need to be the voice of reason. Keep your FIL here where he already has a team of doctors and is familiar with the care and surroundings. When the time comes, have your husband fly his sister + husband here. Your SIL presumably is feeling guilty for not being here with her dying dad, but her approach is simply wrong. At this point, it's not about fulfilling her need to care for her dad. It's about making the last days as comfortable as possible. [/quote]
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