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Reply to "GF and I started talking marriage and I was shocked she was dead against it"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your girlfriend is a widow, which means she knows as much as anyone that you can love someone and have all kinds of plans for the future you're going to build with them, and then see it all pulled out from under you. If she marries you and gives up the pension, and then next year you get killed in a car accident, she could be left in the position of having very little financial security of her own, forever dependent upon her late husband's children to provide for her needs in her retirement. That is not a good position for anyone to be in, and she's smart not to jeopardize her own security like that. After all, you're not talking about changing your will, account beneficiaries, etc., to leave everything to her when you die, you appear to still be planning on leaving everything to your kids for them to do as they please. That may or may not include giving money to your second wife, and you're offering her no security there.[/quote]
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