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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m actually surprised so many people say their spouse never calls them names.  My spouse calls me names and insults me almost daily.  I’m afraid to talk to him because he will call me stupid or something.  I just try to not interact as much as possible or run over what I want to say over and over in my head to see if it is stupid or not and try to gauge what reaction will be.  We’ve been together almost 20 years, it only really got like this after we had a kid.[/quote]

I am surprised too. I am also insulted on a daily basis, criticized, and cursed at. We have been married 20 years. I am frequently reminded that I am a failure as a mother and that everyone thinks I have issues. DH says I am the one who has the problem and he doesn’t know why he stays with me since he could easily replace me with someone much better. If I try to develop any activities outside of work or home I am accused of neglecting the kids and house. I have absolutely no feelings for him anymore. I can’t remember the last time he said something nice about me. And he wonders why I am not physically attracted to him anymore.[/quote]

Married 29 years and my husband has never called me names or sworn at me.

He’s worn you down for so long that you believe this is normal but it’s not. You don’t have to live like this. Make a plan and leave. [/quote]

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