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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think he's resentful and he wants more fun in his life and feels you get it, even if you don't. Try changing your schedule to meet him halfway, worse case, it doesn't work. [/quote]

OP here.  I think you're exactly right about this.  Why does he think I get all this fun?  Because I stay up late every night?  I don't ever go out with my friends in the evenings (i.e. ladies night out), all the late nights/ travel nights/weekends he is working I am on Mommy Duty 24-7 with zero help.  I do all the grunt work of parenting--making meals, packing lunch, doing all laundry, driving all over the place for DC's activities, appointments, etc.  And I do all the grunt work of housework to keep the house running in an orderly fashion--grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning, etc.  Yes, I do stay up really late to get in my own personal time (from about 9 - 1 am) but that is my choice and I sacrifice on sleep to get that time for myself.  DH is not willing to sacrifice sleep, working out, or his sport hobby.[/quote]

I am on Mommy Duty 24-7 with zero help - So change this - get some help.

And I do all the grunt work of housework to keep the house running in an orderly fashion--grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning, etc. - So get some help.

DH is not willing to sacrifice sleep, working out, or his sport hobby. - Frankly, he shouldn't have to sacrifice any of these things.

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