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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH is a kind, sweet man but he does not clean up after himself or do pretty much anything around the house. I am a sahm to three young kids nd I need some help. Conversations have changed nothing. I do 95% of childcare, chores, yard, car, grocery, cooking. We outsource as much as we can afford but it’s not enough. I am so resentful about it and we fight about every other week. I don’t know what else to do and I think he’s hopeless. Can someone help me understand this? The bottom line is I feel like he doesn’t love or respect me enough to try to help although he says verbally differently.

I am finding myself attracted to other men because of this and I’m ashamed to admit that I have a couple of flirty text convos going with other men.

I wonder if my life would be better just living alone and sharing custody and dating occasionally. [b]I feel like I have a 4th child in my DH[/b]. [/quote]

This should not be. He needs to be zero footprint, responsibly adult or make more money, never home and paying for domestic help.

If he's neither of those he may be: Lazy, Stupid, Selfish, Misogynist, Slob, ADD, Dementia, Thyroid energy program, Obese or all of the above.[/quote]

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