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Reply to "DH is being childish or am I a b*tch?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know, OP. I obviously don't know all of the things that have lead up to this in your relationship, so your frustration may be very well justified. However, taken on its own, it sounds like he was trying to share his feelings with you, and you didn't show any empathy or interest, you took it as an opportunity to criticize him. I'm guessing you guys may have some bigger issues to work out besides this single conversation and might benefit from therapy if you have trouble talking it through yourselves. Good luck. [/quote]+1 OP, I am guessing you're justified in feeling resentful but this was not the time to express it. Sometimes when people feel bad you just listen. You don't try to fix it. You don't suggest alternative interpretations. You just listen, let the person feel sad but know that they've been heard. Then you bring up the 401k at another place and time.[/quote]
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