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Combined or not you are not high drive... [/quote]

Mmm, ok.[/quote]

Marry a man, have kids with him, if after 10 years you still want to have sex everyday than yes, you are high libido. Being single and liking sex is NOT the same thing.[/quote]

Oh, so only people in marriages can be high libido. That sounds like a bored bedroom. Mmm, ok. [/quote]

What I mean is that most women are high libido when single. I wanted it all the time and could never go without it (like you did). After 8 years of marriage and 2 young kids, my desire for sex with my husband decreased significantly. For the first 2 years we would have sex several times a day. I was by far the woman with the highest sex drive he had ever met. OP’s situation is similar to mine and not to yours. You might be high libido (I doubt it since you could go 10 years without it), but things change once you are married with kids.[/quote]

OP here.  What we have switched to is morning sex in recent years.  Trying to muster left over energy at night just didn't get it done enough and I found work days wasted as I sat at my office desk horny distracted with thoughts of my wife, but then came home to a wife that was exhausted from taking care of our little boys.  I am self-employed and that gives me flexibility too, so sometimes I can come home mid-day.  DW is a SAHM, and that helps.[/quote]

That’s fun! Both DH and I work FT and our know da still often sleep with us. What i have noticed though is that as soon as the kids are  away for a couple
Of days/weeks (we do this twice a year), we are back at it (not twice a day or in the middle of the night), but at least once and usually in the morning :)[/quote]

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