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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I am having this exact same issue. Actually wrote my ex an email about this earlier this evening but haven't sent it because I'm reluctant to disrupt our good co-parenting relationship. But it is too much. My ex was also a cheater and I think he does it largely because he wants to ease his conscience and feel like a good guy. But he pushes the boundaries too far. So just letting you know you aren't alone.[/quote]

I am a PP who posted above about ex coming into the home.  I have a less benign take on it than you do.  Cheating is all about control.  The cheater wants to do what he/she wants to do while at the same time controlling the sexuality of the cheated upon partner.  The cheater lies about his/her extra-marital relations so that the victim partner will stay in the relationship and stay sexual faithful.

When my now Ex comes into my home, he definitely notices things.  He'll pop in anytime he has the kids to get something from my house for them.  He used to go upstairs to use our private bathroom when he could have used a more neutral one in the basement.  if I receive something like flowers, DH will comment on it, hoping I will give more info about who sent them.   All of these are subtle ways of checking up on me and making sure I am not involved with anyone else. anyone else[/quote]

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