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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wait, wait, wait... YOU broke the baby news to your mom?  Nope, that's against the rules!  I don't care if your SIL is waddling around your house 7 months pregnant; no one gets to tell other family members about the pregnancy except the expecting couple!  [/quote]

Wrong. OP has an obligation to her mother. Can you imagine if OP's mom didn't find out until after the baby was born, and OP had to admit that she knew and ALSO kept it from mom like her a$$hole brother did? It is bad enough that she found out so late, and anyone who doesn't protect their mother from that kind of pain and humiliation is a terrible child.[/quote]

You have got to be kidding me.

Who gets ~humiliated~ because their adult child chose to not disclose a pregnancy? Perhaps people should consider how their behavior impacts their relationship with their family and in laws.

Nobody has a right to know except the parents and who the mothers doctor is. Nobody is entitled to know what’s going on with your body. [/quote]

That's an f'ed up view on family.  Do you think it's normal to hide a pregnancy from your parents and siblings?[/quote]

Doesn’t sound like they were hiding it. Why do you feel you’re entitled to know about someone else’s pregnancy? [/quote]

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