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[quote=Anonymous]I am married to someone who had a dd when we got married. When he picked her up he went up to the door (she was little) but never went inside. When her mom dropped her at our house, she used to come all the way in and talk forever and then leave. It was really intrusive. It was hard to get her to leave. It was also harder on the child transitioning. This isn't a male/female issue. This is a control issue or a boundaries issue. I gaurantee you this is apparent in other areas as well. I rode it out and eventually it stopped (actually we moved and they moved and so the set up was different). I guess you have to weigh making a thing out of it or just hoping it will stop after a bit. You could also start to meet them at the door and just say thanks! and close the door. Of course, you could text him and say thank for dopping them off. No need to come in! Good luck. I get it. It's invasive.[/quote]
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