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[quote=Anonymous]Tell him that you'd like to set some boundaries and you don't want him coming in unless invited. Tell him that if he insists on giving you the monies in check form that he should drop it in the mailbox. Sometimes life is only as hard as you make it. Your kids will be good because they have what appears to be a normal regular relationship with their father. As long as you continue not to speak ill of him, be polite and cordial when situations call for it, your kids will not be affected by whether he steps into YOUR home. I don't know outside of the cheating what other issues you've had with him or yourself - consider therapy but above all else - know this. What YOU feel and want is just as important, if not more, than the people you care about in your life. Stand up for yourself.[/quote]
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