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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]According to my daughter the girl had made a public Snapchat about losing her virginity next weeked and was loving the attention the post got but then started to have second thoughts and people started pressuring her not to back out. My DD and this other girl were good but not great friends with this girl and joined in saying things like “don’t back out now or everyone is going to think you just did for attention.” I think my DD and the other girl were also enjoying the attention this situation brought and they went way to far with it all. I will absolutely make her personally apologize to this girl. I’m so disappointed in my DD, [b]she’s always been kind, compassionate  and very level headed until this horrible incident. [/b]
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No. You are now just finding out who your kid really is. This isn’t a minor issue like teasing someone about the shirt they are wearing. [/quote]

Disagree.  You are way off base.  You've never egged anyone on to do something dumb?  You've never made a joke at someone else's expense and then felt horrible about it?  These are learning experiences, and let's face it, the girl who was a target willingly made herself a target by posing about it on snapchat.  She needs some serious consequences, too.

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Wow. Harassing the girl to have sex is not in the same league as cracking a joke at someone’s expense or egging someone on to do something dumb. Losing your virginity is pretty life altering for most people. Your defense here explains why there are so many bullies in this world. You think it’s acceptable.

And nice to point out that what the girl posted means it’s open season on her. Wow.
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The girl is the one who made a joke of her own virginity, though. She's got to own that. Obviously the other kids took it and ran with it.  But the one who put this topic out on the table for discussion was the girl.  She's the one who announced her intention to lose her virginity.

The whole thing was starting to get out of hand and there was some line crossing when luckily the girl's mother figured out what was going on and put an abrupt end to it before any real damage was done.  Hopefully all of these kids will learn a lesson from this and their parents will take the opportunity to discuss it with them in length.  [/quote]

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