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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry, your post is confusing.

You said her dad is pcsing.

Then you said that he wilk want her to stay and you will want her to go.

That does not make sense.

Are you mom (non military), staying in DC and want kid to stay in DC?

Or are you dad (military) PCSing to another post and wanting daughter to move with you?

Saying the dad has an assignment and wants her to stay and other parent wants her to go makes no sense.[/quote]

Her new / current DH is PCSing 1K miles away. ExDH will be in Washington DC.[/quote]

Daughter stays with her established friends and routines and spends break with mom.[/quote]

Or better yet, MOM stays with daughter in DC (who stays with friends and her established routine AND is able to continue a relationship with her dad) and mom visits her new DH and takes daughter with her during breaks. This is a horrendous situation to put your daughter in...all because you didn't think about the impact it might have on all of you when you chose to get remarried to a man who could be deployed oceans away from her own father. If you have new children with active duty husband, that really sucks, but they should stay with you too and your active duty husband should deploy and you can all visit him. It is not your EX-DH's fault that you chose to remarry someone who has to move away. He should not have to be okay with you moving his daughter that far away.[/quote]

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