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[quote=Anonymous]I would sit him down and that tell him that this situation has to stop. That I am feeling disrespected, lied to, ignored and that I don't feel I deserve this. That this money spent on his pleasures is OUR money, and that he is therefore creating an situation that is hugely unfair to me.

Then I would ask him to tell me the truth on several matters: Has he had sexual relations with other people? Is he aware he could have STDs? Has he thought about how his liefstyle is affecting me at all, or has he become completely selfish in his old age?

If he cannot respond satisfactorily to these questions, I would find a way to ensure my financial security, since that man would no longer have my best interest at heart. That means opening a new private account and moving money into it, separating joint accounts, and seeing a lawyer to discuss protecting my assets (a conversation which should include divorce, of course).

Losing a trying and un-supportive partner is nothing, OP, compared to losing the means to live an independent life.

I also want to note that in rare cases, people become aggressive and/or promiscuous because of brain tumors. But that shouldn't change your reaction, because those patients also tend to run away with the money!
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