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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yep, she is a nanny. Certain men need to feel superior to their mate. Hence the concept of men marrying down. She needs to be saved. Its not how she looks, certain men will not marry on their level or above.

They do not care about your salary.

--A woman [/quote]

Except men check her out before knowing her job. It’s the OPs focus on her own salary that is troubling.  [/quote]

Precisely! This has zero percent relevance to your appeal to me. Just last night I was out and the (slightly inebriated, it seemed) woman at the table next to us was talking on and ON about her job. It was clear she's very impressed with herself and expected it should be a huge selling point to the guy she was with. When we sat down she was talking about her "career path", and I tuned in almost 10 minutes later to hear her comment, "I mean, I wouldn't be interested in a LATERAL move...". You should've seen the poor guy's face, he looked so bored he could fall asleep. I was cringing hard for this (objectively attractive!) woman. She was oblivious and truly seemed to think she was reeling him in and impressing him - I am guessing that's your issue too. Oblivious. Your friend is (obviously) more attractive than you think and exudes positive, sexual energy. You are over there feeling jealous and petty and judgy and indignant, thinking men should bow down and rank you higher when they learn about your income. Just wrong, that's not how they work [/quote]

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