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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wait. Wait.  OP here. [b] If he is so unhappy with the frequency of SEC that he wants to cheat, shouldn’t he mention it first?[/b]  Like, hey, Sex life is not what i’m Looking for, let’s work on it?  TBH, the last couple of times we had sex, he seemed to not to be into it (already cheating, I would guess).  [/quote]

It's a rare man who will throw a bomb into his marriage on purpose.  It's a rare man who will seek out confrontation. Most men will find a way to solve things that involves the simplest route. In this case, that's having sex with other people.

Your husband needed sex. He knew talking to you and trying to work it out with you would not suddenly result in sex, so he took the easier path to get what he needed more immediately. He took a risk and decided that X months of peace at home plus sex elsewhere was worth it instead of the combination of no sex at home and hell at home resulting from "talks" about wanting sex. [/quote]
It's bs. My ex chose smoking and less showering over sex at home. Plenty of men do the same like stopping exercising. Instead of fixing that they go look for whoever accepts them in their new image. 
And even bigger b.s. about confrontation. You clearly know nothing about real world marriages [/quote]

You know you could make your counterpoint without resorting to a childish insult?  This is why dialogue on DCUM never works.  People refuse to debate the different sides of complicated issues without throwing in random attacks.  If you don't agree with my point, that makes a clueless moron.  Got it. [/quote]

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