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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wait. Wait.  OP here. [b] If he is so unhappy with the frequency of SEC that he wants to cheat, shouldn’t he mention it first?[/b]  Like, hey, Sex life is not what i’m Looking for, let’s work on it?  TBH, the last couple of times we had sex, he seemed to not to be into it (already cheating, I would guess).  [/quote]

It's a rare man who will throw a bomb into his marriage on purpose.  It's a rare man who will seek out confrontation. Most men will find a way to solve things that involves the simplest route. In this case, that's having sex with other people.

Your husband needed sex. He knew talking to you and trying to work it out with you would not suddenly result in sex, so he took the easier path to get what he needed more immediately. He took a risk and decided that X months of peace at home plus sex elsewhere was worth it instead of the combination of no sex at home and hell at home resulting from "talks" about wanting sex. [/quote]

A poor choice. The marriage is forever broken. Unfortunately many cannot get divorced because of finances or other reasons.

Plan B would be take out a good life ins. policy, and feed him meals like chuck wagon casserole daily.  Don't remind him to take his meds, or pick them up from the pharmacy on time. Hopefully events will favor DW down the road. [/quote]

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