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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP some parts of your story are very familiar to me.

I am still with my DH, and our child is now 5. Things became much calmer once I really disengaged from the relationship. We're basically roommates now ...

But, I'm really just delaying ripping off the bandaid. Even though things are not volatile, it's not a good life. We will have to split eventually. I do think there's some value in having put it off this long. I think we'll be able to do it in a calmer and less damaging way than before, and we're in a better financial position as well.

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This is my situation as well.  We are roommates who both share a common love for our two kids under the age of three.  I fantasize about being separated but then again he is a very devoted and caring father who my children absolutely adore and I don’t want to be a singe mother.  But when our children are no longer under our roof we will have nothing in common- just awkwardness...it’s so difficult because I don’t want to hurt my kids but what about my happiness.    Is a separation the inevitable in our situation- I have no idea but I often tear up thinking about how it will hurt our children who are our world.[/quote]

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