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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I never questioned her fidelity before. She said she was unhappy and became friends with a male coworker around the same time. I thought she was having an affair. I became anxious and began questioning her every time she checked her phone. She wouldn't/couldn't reassure me that there was nothing going on and at the same time she asked me for a separation. The anxiety continued and pushed her away further, and here I am now, missing the life we used to have and my children.

I have my flaws, I'm not perfect. But I'm loyal, moderately successful, and a great father to our children. I just want to work on myself and be the best husband and father I can be.[/quote]

Op, she may or may not have been having an affair.  If so, it may not have been with this co-worker.  If she was unhappy, it sounds like she needed a friend.

Regardless I suspect you’ve had ongoing anxiety issues that finally became too much for her.  You need to be in counseling and possibly be on medication.  Be a good father but you may need to accept that your life won’t return to what it was.  You’re feeling a little sorry for yourself and that’s understandable.  Separations and transitions are hard.  [/quote]

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