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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I never questioned her fidelity before. She said she was unhappy and became friends with a male coworker around the same time. I thought she was having an affair. I became anxious and began questioning her every time she checked her phone. She wouldn't/couldn't reassure me that there was nothing going on and at the same time she asked me for a separation. The anxiety continued and pushed her away further, and here I am now, missing the life we used to have and my children.

I have my flaws, I'm not perfect. But I'm loyal, moderately successful, and a great father to our children. I just want to work on myself and be the best husband and father I can be.[/quote]

What happened was she started to feel some malaise in the relationship. She met a nice co worker who made her feel alive again. She either became emotionally or physically involved with him. She started treating you differently than before. This naturally excited your suspicions but you couldn’t put your finger on it. So you sought confirmation one way or the other. Then she doubled down and blamed you for not trusting you.

What she did to you made you question your natural instincts. It altered your perception of reality. No matter what you do I guarantee you she is gone.

For your own piece of mind, because it’s uselss in court, you might hire a lawyer who will engage a PI to see if she is still seeing the co worker. Some say this will give you the satisfaction you need to move on.

Whatever you do continue to trust your instincts. Try your best to create a great life for yourself. Best of luck. [/quote]

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