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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I want to clarify a couple of things.

I never said I wanted to be married in 6 months. I said I am looking for a relationship that will hopefully lead to marriage but that could take 1-3 years. I know what I want and don’t feel bad that I want those things. I have wanted them for many years now.

My girlfriend is a student and she works.

I do love her ambition and being in school. I was raised by two strong working parents. I do want kids within the next 4 years, and with her finishing up school and wanting to take 1-2 years to get her career started, I don’t know if I want to wait that long. If I found a woman who wanted kids roughly around the same time, it wouldn’t matter whether she was in school. I do not want a stay at home mom, although I am fine if that’s her choice. I will be equally happy to have a wife that wants to use a nanny or daycare while we both work.

I think I know that breaking up with her might be the best choice. I know is only been a couple of months, but my view is why waste more time when we aren’t on the same page? I want marriage/kids in the next 3-4 years and she wants them later than that.

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Blah, blah, blah.  You’re very nervous about her biological clock.  But you’re also nervous that you won’t ever meet someone else.[/quote]

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