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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Every single day. There is no reason for us to be married other than the kids. We don’t much like each other, don’t spend time together, and like some of the PPs don’t even sleep in the same room. Our day to day varies from quietly civil to huge (emotionally scarring) rampages. DW has various mental health issues and I think the kids need me as a buffer, which is the main reason I haven’t left. I’m afraid she would do something truly terrible if I ever went through with it. But I feel like my own life and happiness are pretty much over. [/quote]

This was me. XDH had/has severe mental issues and I didn’t want the kids to spend time alone with him in a shared custody arrangement. No, I don’t think he would ever have abused them physically. But[b] he couldn't handle even the simplest logistics[/b] and he would have abused them mentally in various manipulative ways (in fact he did that while we were still married despite my vigilance). [/quote]

Same here, he can not remember most things and never how to fix what has been messed up. It would have been a mess, I never stopped cleaning up his messes until the last kid was out, and I was done. [/quote]

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