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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For men with cheating wives, were you matched in terms of libido? Did your wife approach you about the quality of your intimate relations or frequency.

BTW: Most cheaters use apps like kik, whatsapp, or hangouts to keep in contact with their AP. They delete them when not in use. Check the archive on hangouts to see if there are past conversations or blocked numbers. The blocked numbers list is a dead giveaway. You can unblock it for messages to come through when you are actively cheating and then re-block.

They also have alternative Facebook pages that will tie them to dating apps. These Facebook pages can be tied to their other interest (gaming, or other hobbies) and then used for the dating apps when actively cheating. You can change the interface when in the dating app. Does your spouse hate Facebook but still has the app on their phone?

Also, for cheating men . . . I am a woman. Does your spouse keep a ready travel bag for work travel? [b]What is in that ready bag, have you checked lately? I was amazed that a married ONS, who I later found out was married, had a tube of massage oil and lube that was not full with him. [/b]I think he bought the condoms when he arrived since they were too small.
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Amazingly, this is one if the many ways I caught my now Ex - he'd packed a bag for a business trip and left it in the trunk of the car until it was time for me to take him to the airport.  I searched the bag and found he packed condoms.  I thought about putting a little note wrapped around the condom box telling him our marriage was over and not to bother coming back to the house after the business trip.  But, I was too kind and wanted to do it face to face and didn't want to adversely affect his job.  I gave him that courtesy and kindness, and he repayed it by continuing to lie and gaslight me.

During this time I checked extensively on him - cell phone bill call and text numbers, credit card statements, car mileage, keylogger on my computer (which I allowed him to use), etc. Although it was unpleasant to see reality, I am glad I did all that.  It gave me the leverage to shame him into leaving our home and it got me a better child support and custody arrangement. It also enabled me to leave the relationship without an ounce of regret.  The last was invaluable.

Other people will tell you, if you have to do all that, then the trust is gone and the relationship is already over, which is true, but those people don't recognize the abusive nature of repeated infidelity (as opposed to a one night stand).  It is traumatizing and the emotional manipulation is very hard to see clearly without proof to the contrary.  [/quote]

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