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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry you are in pain.

He did nothing wrong.

You're reacting because of your unresolved and painful feelings.

I am curious: why, if the breakup was amicable, did things change later to this extent?[/quote]

+ 1.  Agree with this poster.

In all likelihood him addressing your kid was innocent.  Hope you get over this situation soon.

Ignore the nutty posters on this forum.  Most are class A b*tches that spend all day picking others apart.  [/quote]

I think OP is being a little over the top but you don't think he was effing with her?

Changing the roles a bit. I divorce and my exH (who I have a strict no speaking arrangement with) comes in to a cafe with his sister. If I say hi to sister in his presence I am clearly bringing attention to myself. In a situation where me and exH have explicitly laid out no contact this feels obnoxious. Honestly same would go for a friend. Not technically WRONG but let's be real not innocent.

This is magnified with the kid imo because the relationship clearly has to end and that makes things difficult.[/quote]

You have far too much time on your hands... get out of your own head.

He said hi to the kid, what an absolute monster!

It's called acting like an adult, it's really not that difficult... especially when you're the sole role model for your child, its an even GREATER responsibility to be rational & level headed.

He wasn't being passive aggressive, he was saying hi to her kid, all while (gasp!) still respecting her boundaries not to acknowledge her.

You're unequivocally letting him know how much he gets to you with all of this no contact drama.

I'd never give an ex the satisfaction.

Just smile and wave boys... smile and wave.  :lol: [/quote]

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