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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Who cares when other people wake up?  This is about your husband not respecting you.[/quote]

+one million.  I'd get a job and then a divorce.[/quote]

We don't know the full story. Maybe her husband is exhausted from getting up at 5 am everyday and really resents the extra sleep she gets. I'm not saying he's right, just that grounds for a divorce seems a bit dramatic.[/quote]

True, divorce is probably pretty extreme (I'm the pp who wrote that).

But I think the underlying issue here is HUGE.  This isn't about wake up time.  Her DH does not respect her and is making that perfectly clear.  He does trust her to be making the right choices for how her day is run.  I could not, and would not, tolerate that kind of nanny-ing from my husband.  Is her 7am wakeup causing problems in their life or with their child?  What is his issue?  If his only issue is that he THINKS she should be up early, for no other reason than that's what he thinks, that's a HUGE RED FLAG on controlling behavior.

So are there other issue connected to her wake up time?  Sure lets discuss those.  But the way it's presented he seems to just think she's lazy.  I would not tolerate that from my spouse, who should be your biggest supporter.[/quote]

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