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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think this is the sickness and health part. [/quote]

+1  It is.[/quote]

Not really. He's breaking the vows first by not doing what he can to take care of himself.  [/quote]

Ugh, I had this same constant feeling as I realized I just could not and would not live with my adhd husband, who wouldn’t treat himself. He had this Take Me As I Am moment and I just couldn’t do it for my own health and kids. It was like constantly waiting for setbacks and big accidents. Living in fear. Not trusting him to ever come through, and he didn’t. Not having a Life Partner whatsoever.  And all the stress, anger and resentment.
He played the victim and guilt card, as he always did when he messed up big or small things.

Divorce is hell but you come out of it.  I got full custody as he proved himself unfit due to his issues and addition to work. Doing 50/50 custody with someone like that would never have worked, too stressful, too much work for me.[/quote]

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