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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly, you need to have more than a few screws loose to be the AP of a married man and keep the baby. It's absolutely insane and recipe for a life of drama, pain, and crippling heartache (for both the mother, baby, and father).

The female AP is basically a massive masochist.

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I know my husband's AP kept the baby in hopes that he will leave me and marry her.  I'm sure he encouraged her in this thinking because no sane woman would have a baby otherwise.  Well, not only did he not leave me, but we ended up having more children. She is very angry, and now, when she is realizing how much drama there will be for her child in the foreseeable future, she gets angrier every day.   It's a terrible situation, as I said. No one wins, everyone is in pain, forever.  She says her daughter has been deprived of a father for five years, and I'm like yes....she has been...what did you think it was going to be like?[/quote]

Sounds like you're still (understandably) angry too.

Not sure I could respect a man who doesn't father his kids enough to remain with him.

One day your children will know that their parents knew of their sister but deliberately ignored her. Not sure how I'd feel about my parents doing that.

I'm really not judging you because I can't imagine the betrayal. I also realize you guys are trying to deal with life the best way you can. But I'd encourage you to seriously reconsider tossing that child away. You need to look at the bigger picture. I can't imagine much good coming to adults who turn their backs on flesh and blood.[/quote]

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