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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For once, quit being selfish.[/quote]
Agreed!

I have a single, divorced mom friend. She’s always completely frazzled and can’t believe she has to do this or that for her Kids (I can’t find the time with work. It’s hard being single!) but miracle of miracles! she always has time to date men and get laid.

You don’t need a man to be happy right now. Your KIDS DONT NEED A MAN to be happy right now. They wanted their FAMILY. Not some guy who wants you in bed and boosts your confidence. [/quote]

+10000[/quote]

This is stupid.  Of course she should date.  Happy women are better mothers.  Have fun, OP! [/quote]

Since when is dating fun? What actually ends up happening is that the inevitable highs and lows of dating are emotionally passed through to kids as well, right when they need STABILITY post divorce. [/quote]

I'm a single mom who dates (what you may refer to as a whore). My kids don't know that I date. I live with my parents, and usually don't leave the house until the kids are sleeping.  They wouldn't know if I'm going to yoga class, out to a movie with a friend or a romantic outing anyway. I do experience the ups and downs of dating (and God knows marriage has zero emotional ups and downs!) but I am mature enough to treat my children well no matter what I'm going through. And even if I occasionally felt melancholy and the kids notice (perhaps this will happen in the future), what is the horrible lesson I'm teaching my kids? That the adult human experience is rich and complex and it's essential to know how to properly manage one's life in the face of difficulty? Horrible. Someone call CPS.[/quote]

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