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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wrong. A guy doesn't block you to test your desire to reach him. He blocks you because you went bat shit crazy and he is done[/quote]

Yeahhh...this, unfortunately. If he had said "I need some space, please don't try to contact me for a bit" that's one thing...but all out blocking you is pretty final / telling. That's like...what you do when you are DONE, over it, finality, end of story. I don't think there's even a little part of him that's secretly hoping you'll reach out (like might be true if he had just...ended it after a fight, or unfri need you or whatever). I think you are the crazy girl he's done with in his mind.

I am also wondering about bipolar / something similar, because you definitely sound like you're in a manic phase. Does that resonate? Look, I'm not going to tell you don't do it because it seems like that's useless, but you need to be very prepared for (nay, expect) the fact that this will not go well. And you need to accept that, gracefully - tell him you understand, you just couldn't have lived with yourself if you didn't try, and you wish him well. Don't go all crazy girl 2.0 - I promise you that will not result in a positive outcome.

Honestly? Take this whole thing as a learning experience. And also: start looking at people who live near you when it comes to your next date.

Finally, since we can AYA: why, exactly, did you move?[/quote]

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