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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Which culture are you from OP? Unless you're white, getting smacked by one's elders isn't exactly taboo if it's well-deserved. Since you agree that your own son can be a handful, I would say that it's better not to antagonize the situation. Your son learned an important lesson, whatever it was he did to get his punishment. [/quote]

I don't know any white kids that got hit growing up. I did witness black kids getting a beat down.[/quote]

I was a poor white kid who had parents with high school diplomas.  I got hit plenty and sometimes got welts.  Flyswatters, belts, slaps...[/quote]

I was a middle class white kid whose parents had a masters degree and PhD, respectively. I got hit plenty (slaps, hairbrushes, whatever was laying around, etc.)

OP needs to get her child out of there.  I like the idea of booking the next plane home for him.  [/quote]

Geez - terrible parents!

My mother was a psycho too. She grew up poor and just had no self control and never much thought about what she was doing.
We don’t put up with any crap from her, and she knows that I would literally murder her if she ever touched my kids that way (one is SN so no babysitting by her until he was 10) , so she’s fine - but it’s slways in the back of your mind what a nasty nasty person she is. 
We are white.

OP you need to put the fear of god in your dad. Don’t let this go- explain things to him. Don’t ever leave your kid alone with him again but he needs to know that he can’t do this again to anyone. It’s a balance of power thing and it will be helpful to know that he’s at the lower end of the power balance.

Your kid is going to come home nicer.[/quote]

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