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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am curious about your overall financial situation - are you debt-free other than the mortgage? Have plenty of money to do big updates without dipping into college savings and retirement? If you are and his objections really are irrational, I would go to a counselor. [/quote] Yes, debt free other than our mortgage which has 14 years left on it. College savings are almost done, emergency savings of 18 months+, all retirement vehicles maxed out. Would not touch any of that. I don’t think he’s irrational - he’s very logical about it. He just often fails to recognize that life is not just about how much wealth you can amasse before you die. As I said in the OP, he is a good person. Several pp’s have nailed it - I don’t need his permission but would really like his blessing. That’s what I have to work through - my intense need for him to not just agree but approve.[/quote]
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