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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"I apologize for what I did wrong" is what you say when you don't feel you have done anything wrong. In your mind you aren't apologizing for anything because you didn't do anything wrong, but you hope it appeases the person who thinks you did.[/quote]

This.  I might be inclined to spell it out for him:

"Brother, to be clear, what you did wrong was (i) failing to show up to a weekend you insisted we book, and then failing to pay for your share of the expenses, and (ii) disinviting [b]my DW and kids[/b] from a holiday weekend after we had purchased airfare.  I'll know you recognize that what you did was wrong, and sincerely feel bad about it, when I receive a check for ______________."

this is, of course, taking OP's account at face value.  I agree that there is likely to be quite a bit missing.  [/quote]

Fixed that for ya. OP's DH was still invited.  She and the kids were no longer welcome.[/quote]

I didn't see that in the op.   Op, can you clarify what happened that Thanksgiving?  I'm admittedly morbidly curious about it.  You were invited and then disinvited?  [/quote]

This is what was in the OP:
[i]
...then 6-months later, BIL calls DH and says that our kids and I are not invited to the first family Thanksgiving that they ever hosted because there isn't enough room [b]after we bought plane tickets[/b]. Even if it was BIL's wife (no love lost), it was tacky. ...[/i][/quote]

Pp here.  I missed the part that said "the kids and I" were not invited.  I guess it's so ridiculous my brain couldn't take on the words.  What insanity.  [/quote]

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