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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a husband.  My solution is to tell your husband that until there is a solution for the heat problem in her room, DD will sleep in your bed with you and he will sleep in her bed.  If he has to sleep in her room, he'll probably find a solution to the cooling problem quickly.[/quote]

Dude, you need to check your T level. You talk funny[/quote]

Nope.  I'm a guy who is telling these wives how to get through to a stubborn husband.  This is how to deal with guys.  All of those other suggestions to talk or compromise aren't going to help.  It's been long enough and there's clearly a problem.  If he was interested in helping or solving, he would have done it ages ago.  Right now he's digging in his heels and refusing to budge.  When a guy gets like this, you give him hard consequences or just give up trying.  He's not going to do anything different no matter how much you talk, even with a counselor.  He's not buying and he's going to complain if OP tries to do something about it.  So, she needs to force his hand.

If you don't admit this, then you're just a guy trying to use the bro code that you don't rat out a buddy, but I don't know OP's husband and I'm just giving her the hard cold truth about how to make him s**t or get off the pot.  He either needs to fix the problem or he can deal with the cold room all winter long.  The daughter shouldn't have to sleep in a cold room because Daddy wants to wait for the magic fairy to come and give him a magic solution that doesn't require him to get off his lazy a**.[/quote]

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