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Op here. This is EXACTLY IT! But what's the solution? The exhaustion at this point is driving me to severe depression/anxiety. DH isn't going to change. I can't just let go and not handle this stuff because it will result in my DD being unsafe. I am an anxious person but DH is chill/lazy/disengaged to an extent that I fear he wouldn't even feed her, take her to the doc, etc. I can't leave him, because then he'd be alone with her and she wouldn't be safe.[/quote]

No, you can't let the stuff with your daughter go. But you can let other stuff go. Cooking? Nope, it's now basic easy meals straight from the grocery store. Laundry? Only yours and DDs. Cleaning? If you can't afford to outsource it, it goes undone except for basic sanitation issues. Repairs like your DD's heat issue? Handyman on speed dial. Buying Christmas presents? Only for your family and DD, he can handle his family.

You CAN let some things go. [/quote]

I agree with all this. And you know what, your DH can change. The only reason he isn't changing is because you don't expect him to, he doesn't HAVE to. I seriously doubt your DD will be unsafe. When men get the chance, they step up. Give him the chance.[/quote]

Unfortunately, some of them will take that as an excuse to step out, too.  That's when they start whining to a mistress about how horrible their wives are.[/quote]

You do realize sometimes its the women who cheat.  Men don't care about that stuff so it is not a priority.  Call a window company and get it replaced.  Simple.  Its not like you are asking him to do it.  [/quote]

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