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[quote=Anonymous]The only time I tell DH how to do a household task is if it effects performance or safety. So don’t put glasses over the tines in the dishwasher (safety, glasses could break). But the order everything gets puts in. As long as it’s clean when it comes out, I don’t care how he does it. (Even though it drives me insane that he put the bowls there and the plates over there and why did you put those things in like that!?!) But my priority is 1) to have a helpful husband 2) happy marriage where I don’t turn into Mommy and him a child.

So in the glass situation I would have nicely pointed out the larger pieces of glass and continued to vacuum. And if it were me, I would’ve asked him to clean up to begin with and just remind him “don’t forget under the counters”. Because under the fridge really isn’t a safety issue.

And if A feels like Mommy to B child, then ask yourself, why are you still married to them? If you really are married to a child, f*cking get a divorce. And quit making it your mission to point out all the ways you are MOMMY and they are a CHILD.

Or figure out if you want a marriage of equals. Because equals do things differently. And equals allow for things to be perfect all the time.

And ask yourself if this is the hill you want to die on. Do you want to look at your child and say “we got a divorce and blew up your life because other parent couldn’t clean up broken glass” [/quote]

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