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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry to rain on the misery parade,  nut my kids are now older and I love being their mom. I loved when they were little and when the "consumed" me. I'm actually not even sure what you all mean. Kids are a lot of work. That wasn't a secret when you gpt pregnant. I also married a real man and both of us always carved out time alone,  time togethet, and time as a family.  I don't have hobbies like playing the violin, widdling wood, or scuba diving, but Ive always worked out. That's not a hobby, just basic maintenance.

Don't worry ladies, one day you will be able to let go of all that pent up resentment motherhood has caused you. Your kids will grow up and hardly visit. Maybe if your dream comes true, your all consuming marriage will end.[/quote]

My mom was like you. She loved every minute of us being home and all our diffeby stages. Now we barely talk to her because she is in desperate need of therapy and will tell anyone who will listen about her childhood abuse. We can't have our kids around her to be frank. I am sure you were an awesome Mom though. Me, I work and have an amazing career and a few degrees and hang out with my kids after work and on the weeks and it is perfect for me. But yeah, you couldn't pay me to be a stay at home parent. Like not even a million dollars. I need my space and my kids need their space.[/quote]

Your mom was like me? Um, I work as well. You assume only SAHMs enjoy being a parent and a wife?

Sorry your mom sucks ans smothered you. Hope you got help.[/quote]

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