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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a late 20's woman that has lost 75lbs in the last year, and have kept it off for the past 6 months. I was always a skinny child and teen but developed PCOS when puberty set in, and started gaining weight in my early 20's. I struggled with the issue for years and finally got it under control after a drastic change in diet and going on medication. The extra weight left me with stretchmarks on my breast, stomach, thighs, and hips. I have noticed since losing the weight, two guys I have dated looked at me differently once they found out. One never called me back after a month, and the other was very rude about it. I don't want it to define me, but I am worried that it may hinder my chances of finding a good guy. [/quote]

Hey OP.

I had similar experiences with PCOS, my weight began to grow out of control after 15. Around 23 the weight was off for the first time. The only way this would impact your chances of finding a good guy is that it'll immediately weed out the crap ones who have an issue. You need to find a GREAT guy like one of the first replies said. When you start a family with him it will already add an extra layer of challenge because of the PCOS. Having the worry of[i] "Ive got to get this baby weight off or he won't find me attractive"[/i] is that last thing you'll need with a newborn. PCOS makes weight loss harder. You will continue to have struggles with it during your life. Maybe not to the extreme you've had now, but life is about ebs and flow. If you can't find a man who's good with your past, he most certainly will disappoint you in the future.

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