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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most guys in decent shape wouldn't risk it. There is a high probability that you will get fat again, especially after you have kids. You will probably have better luck if you date guys that are kind of chubby. But you never know, so I wouldn't worry about it too much. Maybe it will help if the guy sees that you consistently work out or eat healthy.[/quote]

This can go either way. The fact that OP lost a ton of weight means that she at least learned how to do it, and has the capacity to do it. IMO, most people really don't have the ability to lose a significant amount of weight. It's just too difficult, and requires motivation and fortitude over a long period of time. It's very possible that she might put on weight later, pregnancy obviously, but she's got a demonstrated record of success on being able to shed pounds.

I know countless people who were cute and skinny when they were young and then ballooned up later. Unlike OP, they don't have prior struggles with weight loss and often don't feel the need to lose weight since they didn't suffer being overweight when they were young. I think it's much easier to make dramatic weight loss transformations when you are young.

A key trait that I like about OP is that she basically took responsibility and initiative to fix her own problems, rather than sitting back and demanding that men just stop being "shallow" and find her fatness attractive. As I get older (I am male in my 30s) I realize that this is such an important personality trait. [/quote]

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