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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So you had an health issue that caused you to gain weight and it took you years to get it under control and find the right meds, but now it is and you are back to a normal weight and guys don't want to date you when they find out? Is that who you want for a life mate, someone who would cut and run when they found out about your health issue?[/quote]

Op here. Yes. I am back to my normal without of 110lbs. I have always worked out and took care of my health, but PCOS was something I couldn't control. Not to make excuses, but it's not like I just sat around eating junk food. PCOS is similar to a thyroid problem, and can cause people to gain and uncontrollable amount of weight. It's not easy to deal with. [/quote]

How tall are you?  110 lbs is REALLY skinny.  You might think about gaining a couple of pounds, just because that will filter out the "obsessed with skinny women" crowd who might be (will be) way more judgmental.

I used to be your weight, gained about 25 pounds, now I am 135 and get hit on more than ever and by quality guys that aren't fixated on skinniness.  I think it was one of the best choices I made. [/quote]

I get way more looks now at 140.  I do think there's something to be said for filtering out the men with weight issues  [/quote]

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