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Reply to "Refusal to change your last name makes me question your committment!!"
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[quote=Anonymous]It's not the actual name change, it's how he's behaving that makes me feel iffy about this situation. Is this how you want to resolve your disagreements in the future? By prioritizing how embarrassed he would feel if you were to do something that is fairly normal? I live in DC, and when I see rosters of parents' names from my kids' classes, roughly half the women (if not more) have maiden names. This is NOT unusual in this day and age. My DH never suggested I change my name. I might have done it as a personal decision, but I would have been annoyed if he'd pressured me into it. In the past 11 years, I've never once regretted keeping my name as is. Now, it's possible that there's something else that is bothering your fiancé and he's fixating on the name issue. Perhaps there are other reasons he's got for not feeling like you're "all in"? Give it some time, take a break from planning, and then reevaluate in another month or two.[/quote]
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