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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Jesus, I needed this article today. I am exactly the woman described. I just rekindled a relationship with an ex via text and it is pretty intense. It has really helped give me a jolt of joy from the otherwise constant resentment and anger I feel towards my husband.

I am trying to tread lightly because the ex is desperate to see me. It is a long distance situation and he wants us to meet up for a quick trip. I am 75% ready to go for it. I think it will help sustain me in my marriage. [/quote]

Yes, it will sustain you in your marriage ... until you get caught (you will), and then it all blows up in your face... How about addressing why you have resentment and anger and then trying to fix what you have and made a commitment to?[/quote]

NP if you read the article instead of resorting to your faux puritanical outrage , you'd know that research shows women who are on affairs have done exactly what you're suggesting ,only to see things stay the same . Nobody has any lesson to take from you [/quote]

Exactly. I am the poster who said that I am 75% ready to try this... I have been married for 7 years, together for 10. I have begged, pleaded, cried, had counseling... Sometimes partners simply are not willing/able to change. I have outsourced cooking, cleaning to try to alleviate stress. Now, I am in the marriage to keep my children stable and happy. We aren't yelling at each other everyday so things are manageable in the home. But the reality is that in some relationships things just devolve into roommates, but that doesn't mean that primal needs of affection, companionship, understanding go away. And this is what I am looking for outside of my marriage. Also, several articles/studies expound on the fact that you should not look to your partner to fulfill your every need. People often find fulfillment from outside social circles etc. So I am doing the same for companionship. [/quote]

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