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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Jesus, I needed this article today. I am exactly the woman described. I just rekindled a relationship with an ex via text and it is pretty intense. It has really helped give me a jolt of joy from the otherwise constant resentment and anger I feel towards my husband.

I am trying to tread lightly because the ex is desperate to see me. It is a long distance situation and he wants us to meet up for a quick trip. I am 75% ready to go for it. I think it will help sustain me in my marriage. [/quote]

Yes, it will sustain you in your marriage ... until you get caught (you will), and then it all blows up in your face... How about addressing why you have resentment and anger and then trying to fix what you have and made a commitment to?[/quote]

I agree that you're playing with fire, PP. You're vulnerable right now. Your ex is preying on this, in a way, and showing he doesn't really have the best interests of you or your kids in mind.  You are both acting out of selfishness, which is a hard thing to resist, as we're all just human. While it brings back all kinds of intense and wonderful feelings to do what you're doing, they're about as real and sustainable as the effects of a drug, and with as many potentially bad side effects.

It's true what someone said earlier. You will find you're just trading one set of problems and miseries for another. Men are fun, but most are not great as domestic partners. I've been through a few, and have come to realize that a good collection of sex toys and focus on my own self-worth and happiness bring more satisfaction and peace of mind than new and exciting relationships can.[/quote]

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