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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Email back and say, thanks for the invitation.  I'd like to do a party at Pump it up for Larla's school and other friends since this sounds like a party mainly for your and girlfriend's families.  What day is most convent for you or would you prefer I hold it on my own for her friends?  Your girlfriend is welcome to come.[/quote]

OP here--they went ahead and sent invites to my kid's friends already. So while I am going to have another party, some of the people are going to be caught in this mess and get invited twice.  [/quote]

That's really crappy.  I'd go to two parities knowing the situation, especially if you told me what he did.  Honestly, I'd rather take my kid to Pump it Up and he'd rather go there than to someone's house, especially when its colder out.  Your idea is much better.  He should not have done that.  [/quote]

My kids friends have already called to express confusion and weirdness about the fact the invite was to HER house.  It's really mean and cruel--especially since I was trying to work it out amicably by having it on neutral grounds.  I am just crushed for my kid who already told me "We have an invitation for you. Can you come?" I didn't know what to say.[/quote]

When you called to ask him to make plans, did you already know that he sent out invites?  I think you did...[/quote]

I absolutely did NOT. I emailed him on Saturday to see what he wanted to do. On Monday he emailed back with the plan.  On MOnday night, I called to talk to my DD. [/quote]

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