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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a PP said, this thread is enormously helpful even if people have disagreement over the definitions. I recently cut contact with the object of my workplace crush. What will never get sorted out (because it's impossible to ask) is whether this person even knew how I felt, and for sure I'll never know if they reciprocated. The crush was not something I saw coming and though I am happily married I never thought a crush could hurt this much. Marriage vows are more important than my feelings, but this hurts like hell and I don't know how long this can go on. Anyway, thank you to OP and others who are sharing. Only safe place for me to learn and consider this.
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My husband went through something like this and I have struggled to understand it, as we have been working on our marriage. Can you explain what it is about this experience that "hurts like hell"? I still don't understand that part. [/quote]

Are you me? I could have written your question.

I'm tired of hearing how "hard" it is for you to give up your crush. How it "hurts" like a breakup. What about your spouse? You think it doesn't hurt them to know their husband or wife has feelings for another, acted on or not? FFS, how selfish can you be?

I loathe cheating, and still never would. BUT I totally understand the "revenge cheaters" - the point is not to make yourself feel better, but to show your selfish spouse how badly it hurts because otherwise, they're too busy feeling sorry for themselves they had to give up their AP/crush/whatever. [/quote]

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