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That you laugh and are proud to be a golddigger shows your maturity level. [b]You clearly said you don't marry for love first but are eyeballing a man's bank account[/b].[/quote]

I fail to see the problem.

I live on earth. On this planet love doesn't pay the bills, buy groceries, keep a roof over one's head, or behind in nice clothes. Love does not entitle you to travel and fun experiences. If you find my lack of patience for poverty or struggle in my life to be immature, then I will keep on LOLing. You and your consorts are quite entertaining.

You are promoting fairy tales and upset because I'm dealing with reality. Yet your perception is that I lack maturity? How bizarre. 
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Wow pity you grew up with such low integrity and morale that you value others first on how much money they can give you. You must have had a really poor upbringing or had a fear of poverty and struggle at a young age to be in that position. Luckily I was not in that fear of poverty position and grew up with both money and love but more emphasis on love and affection that I valued more.

No, not promoting fairy tales. I guess I just do not see the world through a golddiggers eyes.[/quote]

How does considering finances to be important equate with a lack of integrity?

A lack of integrity would be to be dishonest about my expectations, but I'm not. Men of value do not have a problem with the fact that I'm only interested in men of value. I'm a woman- "love and affection" (non-sexual) can be obtained from family and friends. Therefore a man making that the selling point, is not going to work for me. "Love and affection" as a selling point benefits men, not women. It is not currently acceptable for men to get love and affection from their friends, their fathers, etc. But it's fine for women to get it from their friends, their sisters, mom etc.

Play the hand that you were dealt, and play it well.

I did not grow up in poverty, but if I did that wouldn't have been my fault, would it? Do you enjoy feeling superior to poor children because you weren't one? It seems like you should be evaluating your own character moreso than mine.

Life is great for me and it will continue to be.  :) [/quote]

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