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Reply to "We have a great logistical and financial marriage, but no affection. Worth it or not?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Ok, there are a LOT of positives here: "Right now we're in what I would call a warm, semi-sexual (once every 2-3 weeks, that's on both of us) roommate situation. We get along so well. He's my best friend. We laugh, have hobbies, on the same page about financials, careers, family life. We travel well, we treat each other with respect and see each other as equals." But you also describe him later as cold and cheap. What gives? Personally, as someone who has been her her DH for 16 years, the romantic, affectionate gestures can wax and wane. I think you should examine any underlying resentment or lack of respect you have for him and try to change that. Next start initiating thoughtful, romantic gestures towards him with no expectation of immediate reciprocation. In my experience this leads to a snowball effect of sweet gestures. [/quote]
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