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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What is making you feel this way?[/quote]

1.  He has many gay friends.
2.  He has little interest in sex, he's  not enthusiastic about it, I am always prompting him during as well as initiating sex.
3.  He sometimes has trouble keeping an erection.
4.  He doesn't have the typical bachelor pad. It's super clean, decorated very nicely. He decorates seasonally.
5.  He is a great cook.
6.  He is very concerned about his appearance.
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#1 doesn't mean shit.
#2 makes me wonder about you as in why did you chose him for a boyfriend.
#3 doesn't mean shit
#4 doesn't mean shit
#5 doesn't mean shit
#6 doesn't mean shit.

So ultimately the only question to be answered is why are you with this guy?[/quote]

But all put together? [b]Sounds gay[/b]. [/quote]  So how do I find out. He is not going to admit something like this and if he isn't then what an awk situation if I were to ask him! What can I do to find out, or narrow it down more?[/quote]

What does it really matter, OP? He's not interested in sex with you and he has no sex drive. Are you saying that if he's straight then you will be okay with the way things are? Because his drive isn't likely to increase - on the contrary, once you marry and have kids it will likely be gone forever. Whether it's because he's actually gay or because he just has a low libido - you will still be in a sexless relationship/marriage - either way.[/quote]

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