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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP you don't have to bring the older kids. They have two families, your kid has one. You're allowed to vacation without them. They will get vacations with their mother without your child and that will be fair too. [/quote]

Oh ok, so they just don't get vacations with their father. Your child gets vacations with both of his parents. Got it.[/quote]

I'm saying they don't have to be included in ALL of the vacations. They get two sets so it's not like they get less. [/quote]

They are already not included in some of the vacations.  And we don't know if the mom takes them anywhere.

A father should not treat some of his children better than others.  They have already suffered a divorce.  This is just rubbing it in their faces that their father is happy with his new family and does not want them on his vacation.[/quote]

It's not treating one set of children better, its allowing them to forge memories too. You have together trips and a few that aren't [b]just like they will have with their maternal family and whatever new family she creates[/b].[/quote]

that's not OP's problem though.

What if her new a-hole husband decides they can't afford to take her kids on trips with them and their new kids? You know, just like you're doing?[/quote][/quote]

It is OP's problem if she cares about the kids and wants her son to have healthy sibling relationships.

OP, why can't you save up and go later?  You don't want to, that's why.  It isn't the family you wanted.  Well guess what, nobody here is getting the family they wanted!  The difference is, you had a choice and the children did not.  So suck it up.[/quote]

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