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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The problem isn't the children it's your BF's unreasonable expectations and putting all of the problem on OP/OP's kids. Siblings do not need to play together all the time, family activities can be planned to include everyone, balanced with time for kids' to do their own thing. But as long BF expects his child to dictate what the other kids do and for the family activity to always be what his child wants to do then any marriage is doomed to fail. If your BF isn't willing to talk this out, compromise, and parent his child then you probably should break up. It's not going to get better.[/quote] OP here, when his child is bossy he says he's "being a leader." So he seems to encourage it. This makes me nuts. I tell him that it is fine if he asserts himself, but part of being a leader is listening to others and accepting input. [/quote] This seems like a big deal breaker, OP. Don't put yourselves and your kid through this.[/quote]
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