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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have 1 other child. How about your BF? What are the other kids doing? I think you definitely have to not think of this as a play date for the kids. This is a date for you and BF and the kids are dragged along. BF's son can bring his own toys. Plan as many group activities as you can..something like a hike or the zoo that puts everyone on an equal start.[/quote] Hi, it is definitely not a date for me, I am busy supervising the two younger kids. My other son is older and mostly stays upstairs (he is five years older and usually comes down to say hello then retreats to his room).[/quote] If it is not enjoyable for you..stop doing this. No one is having a good time. Schedule some family events..like Sunday dinner every other week for everyone and otherwise only see each other without the kids. If you do get married, the kids will not have playdates. They will do their own thing.[/quote]
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